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Although the club was formed to help those who have become divorced, separated, or widowed, over the years we have tried to move with the times, so if you have been in a long-term relationship, and now find yourself alone you are also welcome, our members ages range from mid thirties and upward.

We have two events every month called “Newcomers” where our membership team will tell you all about the club, club rules and benefits of membership, see the contacts page for their contact No’s, e-mails or alternatively just come along to the advertised Newcomers evening you can bring a friend if you need some support. Contact peter 07982 431643 membership secretary  for further details.

When attending a newcomers evening the membership secretary will ask for confirmation of your maritial status for example, i.e. a council tax form showing 25% reduction for single occupancy / gas or electric bill in your name only or divorce papers.  If a problem please ring membership secretary on 07982 431643

There is a newcomer’s dance at the Colchester golf club Colchester on  Saturday of each month, (newcomers at 7.30 pm) We also have a pub night / newcomers evening at the Cricketers, Fordham Heath - see events page for next newcomers evening. 

Your first contact at newcomers may be very daunting especially if you come on your own, but you don’t need to feel nervous, we have all been there before and have enjoyed the benefits of joining the club, many of our members have met partners and some have met and married through the club to become honorary couples, so as long as you are both members you can still be part of the club,.one months temporary membership  , so if your fedup of looking at those four walls and being a slave to your children, take some me time and start a new social life with the Iceni club.  

PLEASE REMEMBER DRESS AT DANCES IS SMART UNLESS STATED OTHERWISE NO JEANS OR T/SHIRTS MEN SHOULD WEAR A SHIRT WITH A COLLAR.